Wednesday, October 12, 2011
La Danse
I have been using a photo of balanced stones as a logo for a few years now. The stones illustrate balance beautifully and I received positive feedback about the image from most. And although I love the image of perfectly balanced stones, they never felt 100% right in representing what it is that I do. Beautiful, but a little too serious and a little too static, I think. Body in Balance is about loving living in your body and to me that implies joy and movement. So for now, I am replacing the stones with the familiar joyful, moving image of Matisse's dancers. The painting is in the public domain so it feels right to me to use it for now, knowing that at some wonderful "aha" moment in the future the permanent Body In Balance logo will be born.
I wish you joy and movement AND balance.
Love Living In Your Body!
Nancy
Monday, September 12, 2011
The Seed
As I was sorting through my files and re-reading old writings, I came across a piece I wrote as part of my application for massage school. People often ask me why I chose to become a massage therapist. Below is the story of that first moment, the seed that eventually led to that decision, many years later.
There was a defining moment in my life, when I was in undergraduate school studying dance, when an Alexander Teacher “walked” each member of our class. First we observed our classmates walk around the studio, noticing their idiosyncrasies. We noted the rhythm of the walk, the initiation, how the weights of the body were being carried, etc... Then, our teacher put her hands gently on the walker and gave some simple images. When the student began her walk again, it was like a magic act; the walk had changed. Footsteps were lighter, arms swung more freely...the students were taller! When my turn came I remember that I wanted to run and skip to celebrate the freedom that I felt in my body.
Every since that experience, I have been fascinated by the intelligence of the body. I do not believe, as I once heard a scientist claim, that the human skeleton is somehow flawed, that we suffer from a kink in the evolutionary process, that our spines cannot adequately support this business of being erect. Although many among us suffer back pain, I don’t subscribe to the notion that it is a natural result of the aging process. I believe, instead, that it is a result of our culture, with its constant stress and misuse of the body. I believe that the body is intelligent and that pain and disease are often the result of restrictions that prevent the body from being able to function to its potential. Freeing these blockages and allowing energy to flow, enables the body to find balance and health. Our bodies, when in harmony, are free from pain and restriction.
So there it is. The seed that started it all- being walked by an Alexander teacher. I remember it vividly. That one delightful moment when my body, free of restrictions, was suddenly a beautiful place to live and it felt as if my entire world had changed. It is that change that I hope to pass along to others.
Wishing You Balance,
Nancy
Tuesday, September 6, 2011
Gratituesdays
This past Thanksgiving marked the launch of my year long gratitude project. Every month, I have invited someone to join me in exchanging a list of daily gratitudes for the entire month. It has been a remarkable experience. Although reluctant at first, my August gratitude buddy turned out to be a most enthusiastic participant; it didn’t take long for him to understand how profoundly enriching this practice can be. We shared our gratitude list by e-mail, each with a subject line that reflected the day of the week: Gratitude Sunday, Gratitude Monday, Gratitude Tuesday.... And on one one particular Tuesday, we cleverly ran the words together and the concept of Gratituesdays was born.
Each Tuesday, I would like to invite people to share their gratitudes on my Body In Balance Facebook wall. Taking time to express gratitude is a wonderfully life affirming practice on its own, but sharing these gratitudes with others deepens the experience. It is a beautiful way to connect and to be inspired.
Please join us! “Like” the Body In Balance page. Join in on the sharing!
Wishing you balance,
Nancy
Tuesday, August 16, 2011
A Year Of Lessons
Birthday time!
I just turned...
older.
And perhaps a little wiser.
To prove the wiser part to myself, I decided to try to identify a few life lessons I learned this year. Here it goes, in no particular order, unless you count the order that they popped into my disorganized brain. Random order, then.
1. It might be fun for a time to reinvent yourself, but after a time, it is disorienting and a lot of work. It always comes back to authenticity. I just have to be myself. This doesn't mean being stuck and static. Learning, growing and adapting are good, but it's no good to try to change who I am. There are all kinds of way to be, but as a wise yoga teacher said in class the other week, "Be virtuosic at being you." Yes to that.
2. It takes a village. I love my solitude, but isolation is, well, isolating. Connection is vital and healthy. Connections as simple as smiling at a stranger can be nourishing to the soul.
3. Environment is important. For whatever reason, the vibe of where I spend my time, makes a huge difference in my mood. I could probably be very happy doing almost anything for a living if I were in a beautiful place. I am lucky though- I love doing bodywork and both my spaces are beautiful, so I don't have to chose between beauty and doing what I love. My home office is magical. One Life Chiropractic is just beautiful. I dare you to walk in the waiting room and not get an immediate sense of calm. I am so happy that my clients have a choice- some prefer a homey atmosphere. A professional atmosphere with a comfortable waiting room will work better for other clients.
4. Being careful with money is important, but sometimes you just have to spend some dough. When I realized that it was taking me 20 minutes to do what could be done on a friend's new computer in less than one minute, and if time is indeed money, I was losing all kinds of it working on my very cute, but very out of date mac. New mac in hand....simple computering is indeed simple now- the way it should be. I can finally catch up on all that I need to do, simple stuff and sophisticated alike- and not spend my day looking at that spinning pinwheel that indicates that my computer is trying as hard as she can to climb that hill, "I think I can....I think I can....I think I can...."
5. I alone am in control of my happiness. As soon as I link my happiness to something external- I am in big trouble. I can't really control anything outside myself. It is hard enough control my own thoughts, but it seems key. What is watered grows. A brain can be changed. My gratitude practice has shown me that focusing on the wonder of life can indeed make for a more wonderful life. And for that, I am very grateful.
Five seems like a good number. If I stayed at the computer longer, I could probably go on and on. That is the nature of lessons- they are opportunistic and insistent. They just keep showing up. This is something for which I am also grateful Very grateful.
Wishing you balance,
Nancy
Wednesday, July 27, 2011
One Great Massage. Two Terrific Locations!
Massage At One Life Chiropractic
One Life. One Body. One Choice.
And now...One New Massage Therapist! I am extremely happy to announce that I have very recently joined the friendly and professional staff at One Life Chiropractic.
Located at 3300 Monroe Avenue, One Life Chiropractic features first rate health care in a welcoming and relaxing environment.
I am now taking appointments. Just call me directly at 585-288-6006 or e-mail me at nanodance@gmail.com. Take advantage of the introductory massage special. If you schedule before September 15, your one hour or 90 minute session is $10.00 off.
Check out the One Life website: One Life Chiropractic.
Wishing you balance,
Nancy
Sunday, June 12, 2011
My Traveling Altar
This weekend Shannon Halligan, L-CAT and I co-led a workshop called, "Awakening to Possibility With a Traveling Pocket Altar." I became interested in the idea of identifying and inviting change into one's life when I attended a vision board workshop earlier in the year. During that event, as I sat leafing through magazines, cutting and pasting my collage of things I wished for my future to hold, the idea to create my own workshop began to form. The social setting of that early January gathering was fun and inspiring, for certain, however, I sensed that this idea of envisioning one's life could be carried further, that there was a rich potential for a workshop that was deeply reflective. Discussing this with Shannon, she introduced the idea of creating a traveling altar which she described to me as a small decorated box filled with meaningful items that can fit in a pocket or bag, so that it can travel with you. I loved the idea and suggested that a centering meditation and mindful movement session before creating the altars might lay fertile ground for ideas. Thus, the idea for the workshop was born.
Yesterday's workshop was a relaxed, creative and inspiring morning of meditation, movement, dream making, art making and discussion.
But that isn't what I want to talk about. We will offer this workshop again and I will talk it up then. I will encourage you to come and will send you many invites. You will be made well aware of why you should take this particular workshop. And you should take this workshop. But that isn't what I want to talk about.
What I want to talk about is MY traveling altar. I had a bit of a vision of what I might want to include before hand. One of my friends had introduced the idea of writing affirmations on her phone- things that she wanted in her life. I loved the idea and copied it. My smart phone has meaningful messages on the screens, reminders to practice gratitude along with reassurances and visions such as, "You have all the time you need," and "Decisions are made with ease." At the workshop, I realized that my phone messages are a form of an altar- a collection of ideas that are important to me- ideas I place on high.
I imagined my altar box to include objects that represented love, financial security, creative expression, yoga, a thriving massage practice- the things that I put on the vision board I had made earlier and on my telephone altar. When I do finish filling my traveling altar, I am sure it will have ephemera that will represent all of that, but the altar box itself took on a direction that I didn't expect.
I found myself thumbing through travel magazines, my fingers reaching for travel themed collage paper and cutting out maps. And when I heard another woman read the phrase, "We are not in Kansas anymore," from a tin of movie themed magnetic words, I, the girl who grew up in Kansas, pounced on it. My altoid box turned traveling altar is covered with a maps, passport stamps and images of postcards. A traveling traveling altar! Who knew that I had the travel bug? Recently I renewed my passport, but I did so without any emotion or fantasy. Passport renewal was just an item on my to do list; it seemed like just another something that had to be done. During the workshop, however, the dream of world travel was awakened! For so many years, money and circumstances have made travel unrealistic. And even though I have no plan for world travel right now, what I have realized from my other envisioning projects, that once a seed has been planted, things do begin to shift and what might start off feeling like a crazy dream can slowly begin to feel very possible.
Other participants spoke of the same phenomenon- that their altars took on a different direction than they expected. Since we took time to become fully present in our bodies before we started our creative work, it doesn't really surprise me. The body is ripe with wisdom and when we tune inward and pay attention, we can reap the harvest.
Join us next time, why don't you?
Wishing you balance,
Nancy
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Sunday, May 8, 2011
On Being Unique
My college students are required to attend dance performances and submit written responses describing what they have seen. I was noticing that the word "unique" was coming up again and again. This made sense to me, but I also found it annoying. For many of my students a dance concert is a novel experience so everything is they see is "unique." But without explaining why it is unique, the word held no meaning, so I started outlawing it entirely in an effort to get them to describe what was happening on stage and how it amazed them, moved them, inspired them, confused them or exactly why it bored them to tears.
The other night I was at a gathering full of people I didn't know and I found myself in a typical cocktail party conversation discussing what it is that I do. "I am a massage therapist," I explained. Going to massage school was a dream come true for me and I find helping people in this way to be an incredible honor. So, when I tell people that I do massage and bodywork, it is with a certain pride. But, let's face it. There are a lot of massage therapists out there, especially in this town. And furthermore, there are some very good ones. Why should you come to my modest office for a massage when you could go to a ritzy spa? Why should you come see me for bodywork when you could get a cheaper massage from a student therapist at the massage school? What makes my practice unique? What should I tell this person who is asking me what I do? What should I tell her sets me apart?
My bodywork treatments are unique of course; all body workers offer up something of themselves in their practice. We, as clients, relate differently to different people and I believe that you have to trust and resonate with someone in order to open up fully to treatment. This makes it important to find a therapist that you respect and trust and with whom you feel connected. The most important thing that I have to offer, besides my training, skill and intuition, is my ability to be present, to listen, and to respond. I do not do cookie cutter massages. Each session is tailored to your needs and designed collaboratively, based on your goals and preferences for treatment, combined with attentive hands that listen and respond to the wisdom of your body. Nurturing, nourishing and effective, sessions are designed collaboratively, based on your goals and preferences, combined with expert hands that listen and respond to address pain, tension and movement restrictions. Each session is truly unique.
I would never say that other therapists don't do this. Many do, I am certain. I can only promise that this is what I believe in and therefore it is what I do.
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